Just need some quick opinion about what's worse. Abortion or Giving baby up for adoption?

So my dad had a car accident yesterday, and it almost scare the hell out of me, because my daughter was also in the car. I remember yesterday around 1:00 pm, my wife call me and said Dad had an accident, then she hung up on me. That's the worst way to end a conversation when it involves life threatening issues. I was glad to find out they are alright later on, but my car is undrivable. There goes my $500 deducable, and once again I feel very very unlucky! Craps happen almost constantly within recent years. While I was feel so down, I got this email from a friend of mine, it's a quote:

“Each day is a special gift from God, and while life may not always be fair, you must never allow the pains, hurdles, and handicaps of the moment to poison your attitude and plans for yourself and your future. You can never win when you wear the ugly cloak of self-pity, and the sour sound of whining will certainly frighten away any opportunity for success. Never again. There is a better way.” - O. Mandino

To be honest, I am a whinner and I wear an ugly cloak of self-pity to work everyday. I have no hope toward my future and I often think that I am the most unlucky person in the world.  

Today one of my friend ask me what will I do if I know Nathan was going to be born with down syndrome. I always thought that abortion or so called "pro-choice" is legitimate and acceptable for handicap children. I mean why would you want to bring life on earth that has to suffer right? There are different levels of suffering. I saw students jumped off building because they failed to go to the school they want, businessmen go suicide when they went bankrupt, women kill themselves when they are the victims in rapes and etc. Down syndrome can be a level of suffering, people with down syndrome suffer from ignorance, prejudice, neglects and community rejection. Well a lot of you might say, all these cases I mention do not necessary need to end with suicide. That's right, bad things happen in life with down syndrome people or so called "normal people", people often judge too early and make decision too soon. Everybody wants an easy life, we are all afraid of challenges, but when we can overcome that challenges, the reward is so much greater than a simple life. Abortion isn't a humane thing to do in many cases, it's just a way to avoid difficulties in the future. For those who can not put up with life time difficulties, we should not blame them, because we are all raise that way. But for those out there that are brave enough to continue the pregnancy, please show some respect to them as well as their children with a smile. No matter which way you look at them, they are a thousands times stronger than you.

我很感恩，若没有一些经历，神的话我听不到.

Praise the lord, without this experience, I will never hear God's words.